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	<title>Comments on: More bitter</title>
	<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/</link>
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		<title>By: Bob #1</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-624066</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob #1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 17:20:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-624066</guid>
		<description>There are two kinds of people who don't 
say much___those who are quiet and
those who talk a lot.</description>
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say much___those who are quiet and<br />
those who talk a lot.</p>
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		<title>By: Cliff Cerce</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-622619</link>
		<dc:creator>Cliff Cerce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 05:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-622619</guid>
		<description>To # 62 - Good idea, Bryce.

Our group resigned from this Association that we have donated our time to for the last three years (the one that Rick and Julie also belong to) as a result of this "drama". The Association has asked us to re-consider, but we felt it best to just go in peace. We have no quarrel with this fine organization or its leaders. The actions of a few individuals should not reflect adversely on this Association.

Our focus needs to be on our most important goals in the days ahead.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To # 62 - Good idea, Bryce.</p>
<p>Our group resigned from this Association that we have donated our time to for the last three years (the one that Rick and Julie also belong to) as a result of this &#8220;drama&#8221;. The Association has asked us to re-consider, but we felt it best to just go in peace. We have no quarrel with this fine organization or its leaders. The actions of a few individuals should not reflect adversely on this Association.</p>
<p>Our focus needs to be on our most important goals in the days ahead.</p>
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		<title>By: Bryce</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-621940</link>
		<dc:creator>Bryce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 16:42:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-621940</guid>
		<description>This drama is sufficient to discourage me from posting under any name than a pseudonym.</description>
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		<title>By: Rick</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-620961</link>
		<dc:creator>Rick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 21:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-620961</guid>
		<description>In reponse to Cliffs post #58

If I saw you guys right now I would still hug your necks and tell you I love you.</description>
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<p>If I saw you guys right now I would still hug your necks and tell you I love you.</p>
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		<title>By: Dexter</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-620422</link>
		<dc:creator>Dexter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:37:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-620422</guid>
		<description>wow...a whole lot of energy is wasted on these arguments isn't there...wow...paragraph after paragraph...amazing...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow&#8230;a whole lot of energy is wasted on these arguments isn&#8217;t there&#8230;wow&#8230;paragraph after paragraph&#8230;amazing&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-620174</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 10:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-620174</guid>
		<description>You're right Cliff....I should have come to you personally.  I was wrong to have approached it in this manner.  Honestly....I had never heard of this website until friday night.  Shows you just how new and ignorant I am to this industry.   I had no idea just how many people look at this thing....
I have spoke to you about this before by phone....asking you to make some incorrect remarks made on heavensound.  At that time you felt that you were misinformed.  That is understandable.

About you just finding out who we were????

We didn't try and hide it....What other Rick and Julie do you know????

Again....that shows how little I know about this site.  Didn't know people actually spend time looking at this thing... HA!

For those of you that do pay attention to this site.....

I love Cliff Cerce as a brother....
I love his huge heart and his kindness toward people.  I have been in error about the way I have approached this indifference.  My sincere apologies.
I asked your forgiveness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re right Cliff&#8230;.I should have come to you personally.  I was wrong to have approached it in this manner.  Honestly&#8230;.I had never heard of this website until friday night.  Shows you just how new and ignorant I am to this industry.   I had no idea just how many people look at this thing&#8230;.<br />
I have spoke to you about this before by phone&#8230;.asking you to make some incorrect remarks made on heavensound.  At that time you felt that you were misinformed.  That is understandable.</p>
<p>About you just finding out who we were????</p>
<p>We didn&#8217;t try and hide it&#8230;.What other Rick and Julie do you know????</p>
<p>Again&#8230;.that shows how little I know about this site.  Didn&#8217;t know people actually spend time looking at this thing&#8230; HA!</p>
<p>For those of you that do pay attention to this site&#8230;..</p>
<p>I love Cliff Cerce as a brother&#8230;.<br />
I love his huge heart and his kindness toward people.  I have been in error about the way I have approached this indifference.  My sincere apologies.<br />
I asked your forgiveness.</p>
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		<title>By: Cliff Cerce</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618536</link>
		<dc:creator>Cliff Cerce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 00:30:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618536</guid>
		<description>I called myself stupid, not you, Rick.

I said, "In re-reading my original post, my trying to make a parallel to Karen and Chris as both being nice people that should both be respected is not as clear as it could have been. I would have made that clearer if I didn’t type it at 4 am perhaps. But as a friend of mine often says, “Do not automatically attribute to malice that which could be attributed to plain stupidity.” I would hope that those who know me would not jump to conclusions as to my motives."

Meaning simply this - please do not jump to conclusions regarding my motives. Don't attribute my words to malice, when it could just be plain stupidity on my part - by not making myself clear. 

I have just discovered that you guys are the Rick and Julie that we sing with each month. The ones that hug our necks every month. The ones that have been some of our closest and dearest friends.

The ones that have our phone number and have used it in the past. What possible motives could friends have in trying to publicly embarrass a group like ours in a a Major Gospel Music forum such as this? Anita and I are speechless. 

We came to Chris Barnes' defense and attacked or flamed no one. Why would you not call me on the phone if you were concerned about something, rather than try to hurt us publicly?

Anita, my wife, says Rick hugged her neck at least 4 times this past Friday and Saturday. 

Julie has thanked me repeatedly for the CVM article I wrote in praise of this organization we all sing at that they love so well. These exchanges should not reflect adversely on that organization in any way and, so that they don't, we are resigning from it in the next few days, after these past years of participation. I will do anything for peace and unity in the future.

Besides, Anita has told me she will not go back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I called myself stupid, not you, Rick.</p>
<p>I said, &#8220;In re-reading my original post, my trying to make a parallel to Karen and Chris as both being nice people that should both be respected is not as clear as it could have been. I would have made that clearer if I didn’t type it at 4 am perhaps. But as a friend of mine often says, “Do not automatically attribute to malice that which could be attributed to plain stupidity.” I would hope that those who know me would not jump to conclusions as to my motives.&#8221;</p>
<p>Meaning simply this - please do not jump to conclusions regarding my motives. Don&#8217;t attribute my words to malice, when it could just be plain stupidity on my part - by not making myself clear. </p>
<p>I have just discovered that you guys are the Rick and Julie that we sing with each month. The ones that hug our necks every month. The ones that have been some of our closest and dearest friends.</p>
<p>The ones that have our phone number and have used it in the past. What possible motives could friends have in trying to publicly embarrass a group like ours in a a Major Gospel Music forum such as this? Anita and I are speechless. </p>
<p>We came to Chris Barnes&#8217; defense and attacked or flamed no one. Why would you not call me on the phone if you were concerned about something, rather than try to hurt us publicly?</p>
<p>Anita, my wife, says Rick hugged her neck at least 4 times this past Friday and Saturday. </p>
<p>Julie has thanked me repeatedly for the CVM article I wrote in praise of this organization we all sing at that they love so well. These exchanges should not reflect adversely on that organization in any way and, so that they don&#8217;t, we are resigning from it in the next few days, after these past years of participation. I will do anything for peace and unity in the future.</p>
<p>Besides, Anita has told me she will not go back.</p>
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		<title>By: Wade</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618458</link>
		<dc:creator>Wade</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 22:46:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618458</guid>
		<description>LoL... this is funny... but Cliff... gotta tell baby... the perspective heat ya got is because you are a little self important sometimes... especially calling your/that magazine a NATIONAL PUBLICATION!!! LoL:-)) and just because you edited some preacher I never heard of he was important WHY??? ... because he was on TV or RADIO once a week!!! WoW lotsa stations &#38; countries too!!! LoL;-)) No joke or punchline needed... 

Happy Labor Day or as my friends in Canada said, the last time I was on a national tour with a group that tours 3-4 days a week average and nobody ever complained about my time keeping so I must be a Buddy Rich level percussionist, Happy Labour Day !!!

Wonder what Harry &#38; Fonda Peters are BBQing this weekend!??!?!??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LoL&#8230; this is funny&#8230; but Cliff&#8230; gotta tell baby&#8230; the perspective heat ya got is because you are a little self important sometimes&#8230; especially calling your/that magazine a NATIONAL PUBLICATION!!! LoL:-)) and just because you edited some preacher I never heard of he was important WHY??? &#8230; because he was on TV or RADIO once a week!!! WoW lotsa stations &amp; countries too!!! LoL;-)) No joke or punchline needed&#8230; </p>
<p>Happy Labor Day or as my friends in Canada said, the last time I was on a national tour with a group that tours 3-4 days a week average and nobody ever complained about my time keeping so I must be a Buddy Rich level percussionist, Happy Labour Day !!!</p>
<p>Wonder what Harry &amp; Fonda Peters are BBQing this weekend!??!?!??</p>
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		<title>By: Rick</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618368</link>
		<dc:creator>Rick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 20:44:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618368</guid>
		<description>Hey Cliff, Just for the record. Your my brother in Christ and I think the world of you. And Anita. And Terry.
Love you guys.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Cliff, Just for the record. Your my brother in Christ and I think the world of you. And Anita. And Terry.<br />
Love you guys.</p>
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		<title>By: Rick</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618256</link>
		<dc:creator>Rick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 18:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618256</guid>
		<description>As all can see, Cliff gets quite flustered we he tries to back-track. Cliff you can be quite comical that's why I love you as a brother. You have been singing 10 years longer than me so I guess you would have been more expose to "vernacular" than myself. I never "Bashed" Chris or turned to you as a "lightning rod". Your quote about helping him on stage is not an issue with me. I never brought that up. I was not there so I take your word on that. Your a kind giving person and I'm sure you did just that.Your a fine eloquent writer when the words are used in the right context and the average reader is not aware of any difference in circumstances. 
Well, I accomplished my "objective" by adding my observations along with others
(though they have not used a web page) to voice their opinions to you. I know you can't see from the perspective of the "average person" so this won't change anything. And I don't mind being called "stupid" from someone so much more advanced as yourself. I hope to learn a lot from you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As all can see, Cliff gets quite flustered we he tries to back-track. Cliff you can be quite comical that&#8217;s why I love you as a brother. You have been singing 10 years longer than me so I guess you would have been more expose to &#8220;vernacular&#8221; than myself. I never &#8220;Bashed&#8221; Chris or turned to you as a &#8220;lightning rod&#8221;. Your quote about helping him on stage is not an issue with me. I never brought that up. I was not there so I take your word on that. Your a kind giving person and I&#8217;m sure you did just that.Your a fine eloquent writer when the words are used in the right context and the average reader is not aware of any difference in circumstances.<br />
Well, I accomplished my &#8220;objective&#8221; by adding my observations along with others<br />
(though they have not used a web page) to voice their opinions to you. I know you can&#8217;t see from the perspective of the &#8220;average person&#8221; so this won&#8217;t change anything. And I don&#8217;t mind being called &#8220;stupid&#8221; from someone so much more advanced as yourself. I hope to learn a lot from you.</p>
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		<title>By: Cliff Cerce</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618206</link>
		<dc:creator>Cliff Cerce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 16:47:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618206</guid>
		<description>Thank you Rick # 52 (I'm not sure which one you are). Your post 52 was awaiting moderation approval as was my post 53. They were both released to this board by the moderator at the same time, so please be aware that I did not acknowledge your kind comment in post 53, as it was not yet viisible when I posted 53.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Rick # 52 (I&#8217;m not sure which one you are). Your post 52 was awaiting moderation approval as was my post 53. They were both released to this board by the moderator at the same time, so please be aware that I did not acknowledge your kind comment in post 53, as it was not yet viisible when I posted 53.</p>
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		<title>By: Cliff Cerce</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618198</link>
		<dc:creator>Cliff Cerce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 15:59:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618198</guid>
		<description>One more time.....Back to post 40...Here's the quote....

"I was with Chris Barnes tonight. 

Four weeks ago tomorrow, we helped him out of his wheel chair at the front of the Shively Baptist Church in Louisville, and he leaned on me on one side and his Dad on the other, as we helped him up the several stairs to the stage. He insisted on speaking to the crowd from up on the stage (as did Larry Ferguson), and he shakily made his way with great difficulty. This was at the fundraiser for he and Larry on August 2nd.

Tonight, he came to our concert in Branson, Missouri. He drove the 450 plus miles to Branson on his own. He was walking all around the building on his own, with barely a limp.

I feel like I witnessed a miracle.We were shocked."

OK - I am considered to be a pretty good communicator by some. I was asked to join a national magazine as a staff writer and my editor does not seem to misunderstand my writing. I edited Dan Betzer's sermons on the Revivaltime broadcast for 8 years (aired weekly on 600 US stations and in 85 countries), and they never came to me and said that way his words were edited made no sense and were not clear. 

And, to my recollection, I do not recall any issues being raised by any of the readers of this site to any of my numerous posts - as to whether I was communicating clearly in any of them. I am just surprised that there is so much controversy in what I was trying to say.

OK - look at the quote. Here was what I was trying to say:

1. He was in a wheel chair 4 weeks ago.

2. His father and I had to help him walk to the stage and up the stairs. We both advised him to stay below in his wheel chair, because he was not steady on his feet.

3. I said he came to "our" concert in Branson. I'll get back to that in a minute.

4. My point in saying that he drove 450 MILES ON HIS OWN was not to suggest the had driven to see us (I think just about everyone reading this understands this), but to point out that this young man who could not walk a month ago - drove 450 miles on his own.

5. Then, I remarked about how he was walking all around the building and how we feel we have witnessed a miracle and were shocked.

This is what I was trying to convey and, if I said it poorly, I am truly sorry. But, I have read and re-read the above quote - and it still seems clear to me. I doubt Obama's and McCain's words are being analyzed much more than my mine have been.

As for "our" concert, I have been singing in groups on and off again since 1964 when I was a teenager, and this has been the vernacular that has always been used. Concerts generally have multiple groups involved, and groups have always talked about "our " or "their" concert for over 40 years. If George Younce  would say, "A man came up to me after one of our concerts and told me this story....", he would not add that The Hoppers, McKameys, and Kingsmen were also singing that night. 

It has been common vernacular to refer to a concert one is involved in as "our" concert for many years, and I didn't give it a second thought when I typed it or considered that it could be ambiguous. I just noticed that I again referred to it as "our" concert in post # 47 without realizing it. No harm or misleading intended - that's just how things have been described for many years. 

I did know Karen Peck was supposed to come to the concert, but not that she was receiving an award that night. She didn't know it either. It was a surprise to both of us. Her husband arranged for her to drop by, working with Sherrie Brewster. We missed the last months' concert, as we were on our way to Alabama for a funeral when it was held - so we were out of the loop on some of the details. 

Karen Peck and her group is on the cover of the September Christian Voice Magazine, and our box of them was delivered to us 2 days before the concert. Karen was on the road, and had no way to get a copy. Again, we received our box on the Wednesday before the Friday concert. When I told my editor that she was expected to be at one of our concerts (oops - sorry - at a concert we were going to sing 2 songs at with The Bryants, The Revelators, Randy Plummer, Jaimee Brewster, The Persers, The GPG Trio, Julie Renee, Rick Pifer, Marlene Pelt, Carol Howe, Bill Brooks, The Lakins and others), he asked me to be sure she got a copy of the magazine. Karen was there a total of 10-15 minutes. She and her group walkd in as we were finishing the first verse of a song. When we finished the song, she was brought to the stage and given the award which again, I didn't know about. After thanking the folks, she started to leave. I went to her with the magazine, and she was delighted, as she had not gotten a copy yet. (Not to be misleading, I guess I am required to also mention I handed her our latest project too, as a gift). When Anita, my wife, saw me talking with her, she joined me. She had 4 heroes in her earlier adult life - Dottie Rambo, Karen Peck, Janet Paschal and Kelly Nelon - and she wanted to thank Karen for beiong so wonderful.

Perhaps some misunderstood why I went to talk with Karen, but if they had picked up the phone and asked me, they would have learned that I had spoken to Sherrie Brewster by phone earlier that week and told her that I would try to get a copy of the magazine to Karen, as this would be her first opportunity to receive one - and she is the cover story. And, she was leaving - so I went to her.

In re-reading my original post, my trying to make a parallel to Karen and Chris as both being nice people that should both be respected is not as clear as it could have been. I would have made that clearer if I didn't type it at 4 am perhaps. But as a friend of mine often says, "Do not automatically attribute to malice that which could be attributed to plain stupidity." I would hope that those who know me would not jump to conclusions as to my motives.

Well, I accomplished my objetive. I wanted people to stop bashing Chris - and now they're bashing me. If I can serve as a lightning rod for my friend, then I am honored.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One more time&#8230;..Back to post 40&#8230;Here&#8217;s the quote&#8230;.</p>
<p>&#8220;I was with Chris Barnes tonight. </p>
<p>Four weeks ago tomorrow, we helped him out of his wheel chair at the front of the Shively Baptist Church in Louisville, and he leaned on me on one side and his Dad on the other, as we helped him up the several stairs to the stage. He insisted on speaking to the crowd from up on the stage (as did Larry Ferguson), and he shakily made his way with great difficulty. This was at the fundraiser for he and Larry on August 2nd.</p>
<p>Tonight, he came to our concert in Branson, Missouri. He drove the 450 plus miles to Branson on his own. He was walking all around the building on his own, with barely a limp.</p>
<p>I feel like I witnessed a miracle.We were shocked.&#8221;</p>
<p>OK - I am considered to be a pretty good communicator by some. I was asked to join a national magazine as a staff writer and my editor does not seem to misunderstand my writing. I edited Dan Betzer&#8217;s sermons on the Revivaltime broadcast for 8 years (aired weekly on 600 US stations and in 85 countries), and they never came to me and said that way his words were edited made no sense and were not clear. </p>
<p>And, to my recollection, I do not recall any issues being raised by any of the readers of this site to any of my numerous posts - as to whether I was communicating clearly in any of them. I am just surprised that there is so much controversy in what I was trying to say.</p>
<p>OK - look at the quote. Here was what I was trying to say:</p>
<p>1. He was in a wheel chair 4 weeks ago.</p>
<p>2. His father and I had to help him walk to the stage and up the stairs. We both advised him to stay below in his wheel chair, because he was not steady on his feet.</p>
<p>3. I said he came to &#8220;our&#8221; concert in Branson. I&#8217;ll get back to that in a minute.</p>
<p>4. My point in saying that he drove 450 MILES ON HIS OWN was not to suggest the had driven to see us (I think just about everyone reading this understands this), but to point out that this young man who could not walk a month ago - drove 450 miles on his own.</p>
<p>5. Then, I remarked about how he was walking all around the building and how we feel we have witnessed a miracle and were shocked.</p>
<p>This is what I was trying to convey and, if I said it poorly, I am truly sorry. But, I have read and re-read the above quote - and it still seems clear to me. I doubt Obama&#8217;s and McCain&#8217;s words are being analyzed much more than my mine have been.</p>
<p>As for &#8220;our&#8221; concert, I have been singing in groups on and off again since 1964 when I was a teenager, and this has been the vernacular that has always been used. Concerts generally have multiple groups involved, and groups have always talked about &#8220;our &#8221; or &#8220;their&#8221; concert for over 40 years. If George Younce  would say, &#8220;A man came up to me after one of our concerts and told me this story&#8230;.&#8221;, he would not add that The Hoppers, McKameys, and Kingsmen were also singing that night. </p>
<p>It has been common vernacular to refer to a concert one is involved in as &#8220;our&#8221; concert for many years, and I didn&#8217;t give it a second thought when I typed it or considered that it could be ambiguous. I just noticed that I again referred to it as &#8220;our&#8221; concert in post # 47 without realizing it. No harm or misleading intended - that&#8217;s just how things have been described for many years. </p>
<p>I did know Karen Peck was supposed to come to the concert, but not that she was receiving an award that night. She didn&#8217;t know it either. It was a surprise to both of us. Her husband arranged for her to drop by, working with Sherrie Brewster. We missed the last months&#8217; concert, as we were on our way to Alabama for a funeral when it was held - so we were out of the loop on some of the details. </p>
<p>Karen Peck and her group is on the cover of the September Christian Voice Magazine, and our box of them was delivered to us 2 days before the concert. Karen was on the road, and had no way to get a copy. Again, we received our box on the Wednesday before the Friday concert. When I told my editor that she was expected to be at one of our concerts (oops - sorry - at a concert we were going to sing 2 songs at with The Bryants, The Revelators, Randy Plummer, Jaimee Brewster, The Persers, The GPG Trio, Julie Renee, Rick Pifer, Marlene Pelt, Carol Howe, Bill Brooks, The Lakins and others), he asked me to be sure she got a copy of the magazine. Karen was there a total of 10-15 minutes. She and her group walkd in as we were finishing the first verse of a song. When we finished the song, she was brought to the stage and given the award which again, I didn&#8217;t know about. After thanking the folks, she started to leave. I went to her with the magazine, and she was delighted, as she had not gotten a copy yet. (Not to be misleading, I guess I am required to also mention I handed her our latest project too, as a gift). When Anita, my wife, saw me talking with her, she joined me. She had 4 heroes in her earlier adult life - Dottie Rambo, Karen Peck, Janet Paschal and Kelly Nelon - and she wanted to thank Karen for beiong so wonderful.</p>
<p>Perhaps some misunderstood why I went to talk with Karen, but if they had picked up the phone and asked me, they would have learned that I had spoken to Sherrie Brewster by phone earlier that week and told her that I would try to get a copy of the magazine to Karen, as this would be her first opportunity to receive one - and she is the cover story. And, she was leaving - so I went to her.</p>
<p>In re-reading my original post, my trying to make a parallel to Karen and Chris as both being nice people that should both be respected is not as clear as it could have been. I would have made that clearer if I didn&#8217;t type it at 4 am perhaps. But as a friend of mine often says, &#8220;Do not automatically attribute to malice that which could be attributed to plain stupidity.&#8221; I would hope that those who know me would not jump to conclusions as to my motives.</p>
<p>Well, I accomplished my objetive. I wanted people to stop bashing Chris - and now they&#8217;re bashing me. If I can serve as a lightning rod for my friend, then I am honored.</p>
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		<title>By: Rick</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-618166</link>
		<dc:creator>Rick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 14:47:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the corrections made on your comment Cliff. A little wordy. It would have been less effort if it had been said right in the first place.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the corrections made on your comment Cliff. A little wordy. It would have been less effort if it had been said right in the first place.</p>
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		<title>By: Gospel Has Been</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-617971</link>
		<dc:creator>Gospel Has Been</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 12:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who really cares. Some of you have way to much time on your hands. To many of you go through these sites just looking for controversy to get involved in. This things has gotten way away from the original subject of Miss Dottie and her familly which really is no body's business. You folks keep bashing Southern Gospel Music and it's singers and one day it will all be gone then you can say "remember the old days when we had good ole gospel music"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who really cares. Some of you have way to much time on your hands. To many of you go through these sites just looking for controversy to get involved in. This things has gotten way away from the original subject of Miss Dottie and her familly which really is no body&#8217;s business. You folks keep bashing Southern Gospel Music and it&#8217;s singers and one day it will all be gone then you can say &#8220;remember the old days when we had good ole gospel music&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Tiffany</title>
		<link>http://averyfineline.com/2008/08/25/more-bitter/#comment-617768</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 08:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know what makes me want to vomit is how sick minded people would take an innocent story like Larry and Chris watching a movie with Dottie in the back of her bus and twist it to make it seem like some sort of sexual story.  I've got news for all of you, your mother isn't going to be around forever and when that day comes, you are going to wish that you had spent as much time with her as Chris and Larry did with Dottie.  These guys treated Dottie like the the queen she truly was.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know what makes me want to vomit is how sick minded people would take an innocent story like Larry and Chris watching a movie with Dottie in the back of her bus and twist it to make it seem like some sort of sexual story.  I&#8217;ve got news for all of you, your mother isn&#8217;t going to be around forever and when that day comes, you are going to wish that you had spent as much time with her as Chris and Larry did with Dottie.  These guys treated Dottie like the the queen she truly was.</p>
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